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Insights, resources, and reflections on neurodivergent life — written with empathy, honesty, and real-world experience.
Neurodivergence Is Not a Mental Health Problem, But Lack of Support Can Become One
There is a common misconception that neurodivergence itself is a mental health condition.
It isn’t.
Autism, ADHD, dyslexia, dyspraxia, Tourette’s, and other forms of neurodivergence are differences in how the brain processes, communicates, regulates, and experiences the world. They are not inherently illnesses. But unfortunately, many neurodivergent people do experience mental health difficulties.
The important question is often not: “What is wrong with this person?”
But instead: “What has this person had to live through without support?”
Neurodivergence and Eating: Nourishment Over Perfection
Food is often talked about in terms of health, discipline, or “doing things right.”
But for many neurodivergent people, eating is not simple.
It can be shaped by sensory sensitivities, executive functioning, energy levels, routine, emotional regulation, and overwhelm. What looks like “poor eating habits” from the outside is often something much more complex on the inside.
This article isn’t about perfect diets or strict routines.
It’s about something much more realistic:
Getting enough nourishment in ways that actually work for you.
Parenting as a Neurodivergent Adult: Navigating Complexity with Compassion
Parenting is often described as one of the most rewarding — and most demanding — roles we take on.
For neurodivergent adults, that experience can come with additional layers of complexity.
Not because you are less capable, but because many parenting expectations are built around neurotypical norms — constant multitasking, emotional regulation under pressure, unpredictable routines, and high sensory environments.
And for many neurodivergent parents, there is another layer:
Your child may also be neurodivergent.
Tourette’s Syndrome: What are tics anyway?
Tourette’s Syndrome is often one of the most misunderstood neurodivergent conditions.
Many people only associate it with swearing or shouting — but that is just one possible presentation, and for many people with Tourette’s, it isn’t part of their experience at all.
At its core, Tourette’s is a neurological condition that involves tics — involuntary movements or sounds that a person cannot simply choose to stop.
Late Diagnosis in Men: An Often Overlooked Experience
Conversations about late diagnosis often focus on women and girls who were historically overlooked. But there is another group whose experiences are discussed far less: men whose neurodivergence isn’t recognised until adulthood.
There is a common assumption that men are usually identified early, and that late diagnosis is primarily a women’s issue. In reality, many men slip through the net — and often quietly.
For many men, late diagnosis doesn’t happen because their needs were invisible, but because they were expected to cope silently.
This article exists to make space for those men to be seen, heard, and understood.
Self Identification: What’s the harm?
Self-identification is a common and sometimes controversial topic within neurodiversity discussions. Some people worry about the risk of “incorrect self-diagnosis,” while others rely on self-identification as their only realistic way to understand themselves.
This article explores those concerns honestly — while also making one thing clear:
No one should be denied understanding, community, or support because they don’t have a formal diagnosis.
Neurodivergence and Sleep Difficulties: Why Rest Can Be So Hard
Sleep difficulties are extremely common among neurodivergent people — yet they are often misunderstood, dismissed, or treated as a personal failing.
If you struggle to fall asleep, stay asleep, or wake feeling unrefreshed, you are not alone.
For many neurodivergent adults, sleep challenges are a natural result of how our brains and nervous systems work, not a lack of effort or discipline.
In fact, research suggests that up to 80% of people with ADHD experience a sleep disorder of some kind, with similarly high rates seen in autistic people.
Relationships, Sex, and Neurodivergence: Connection Beyond Expectations
Sex and intimacy are often talked about as if they should be spontaneous, effortless, and intuitive. For many neurodivergent people, this simply isn’t how things work — and that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong.
Neurodivergent partnerships can be deeply loving, connected, and fulfilling, but they may approach intimacy in different ways. Understanding these differences can reduce shame, improve communication, and strengthen relationships.
Emotional Dysregulation: Different, Not Wrong
Emotional dysregulation is often described as a “problem” — something to fix, control, or suppress. For many neurodivergent people, however, emotional dysregulation is not a failure of emotional control, but a difference in how emotions are experienced, processed, and expressed.
It is not that neurodivergent emotions are incorrect.
It is that society is built around a very narrow idea of what emotions should look like.
Oppositional Defiance and Emotional Dysregulation: Understanding the overlap, impact, and ways to manage this.
Oppositional defiance and emotional dysregulation are often misunderstood, especially when they show up alongside other neurodivergent traits such as in ADHD or autism. These experiences are not about being “difficult”, “defiant”, or “out of control” — they are usually signs of a nervous system under strain and a person struggling to feel safe, heard, or regulated.
Understanding how these traits can interact can make a huge difference, both for neurodivergent people themselves and for those supporting them.
Why Neurodivergence in Women Is Often Missed
Historically, research into autism, ADHD, and other neurodivergent conditions focused largely on boys and men. Diagnostic criteria were shaped around:
Externalised behaviours
Hyperactivity that is visible and disruptive
Social difficulties that are obvious rather than internalised
Many women simply don’t fit these narrow profiles.
Read on to find out more.
Energy Management for Neurodivergent People
Many neurodivergent adults are taught to manage time — but energy is often the real limiting factor.
Understanding and respecting your energy levels can be life-changing, especially in preventing burnout and reducing self-blame.